Should i go to prom.....?

Ok ok i got a question. Should i go to prom. I am a senior in high school. i went to prom lastyear and hated it. I didnt have a date(which i didnt not care about) so i went with my bestfriends. I went all out i got a 1920s gangster suit... black with grey pin stripes and a red tie with a hat with a feather in it and a caine... lets jus say i was the best dressed. Prom was gay for sure. so at the beginning of this year i decided not 2 go 2 prom in may. So the whole year i built a mental wall that was known as anti-prom. So this year i tried to get a girlfriend... i really liked this girl (lets say her name is chick )and thought she liked me then when i found she didnt like me i was devasted and hurt but i got over it but the scare is still there... she said she was not ready 4 the commitment and wanted to just b my friend (WHICH I ****** HATE IT WHEN GIRLS SAY THEY JUS WANT TO B FRIENDS). Then weeks later she started to talk to a dog (basically a guy that is cute that treats girls like ****.) I was like wtf man. Well she opened her eyes and realized he was not good for her so.... She got with another dog thought this one is not as bad still he has already cheated on her n ****.... So i decided to give up on trying 2 get a girlfriend and figured i would b a player i like it alot.... Im not a bad 1 or anything im still a virgin and plan to stay 1 but still i talk 2 alot of girls at the same time and do things with them... though i would never be this way with chick or a couple other girls that i have true feelings 4 but still i like the attention. So anyway recently one of my friends (a girl) has been trying to get me to go to prom with this other girl (lets say her name is shelly) This was early this week and i have realized that i like shelly more than a friend. and i guess she really likes me and has 4 a long long time. And wants to go to prom wit me. But i do not want to go to prom... I jus hate the idea of prom everybody wants 2 go n i dont want to b like everybody else.... and plus i kno if i go wit this girl it will b possible that something more will form... like a relationship. and i dont want a girlfriend... chick really hurt me and changed my view of girls indefinitely its bullshit. I do like her but am not ready 4 a relationship. but at the same time i dont want 2 hurt shelly who really really wants to go with me 2 prom. plus shelly wants me 2 ask her and i want her to ask me... im not shy or anything but i wanted it to b different u know switch it up the girl asks the guy and so on. if she woukd ask me i would definetly go with her. but she cant i guess she is the shy 1. So what do i do... i hope this story is not confuseing.... feel free to ask questions